Closing Ceremony Speech by Jacob: Navigating Our Way Through the Traffic of Life

Navigating Our Way Through the Traffic of Life: A Closing Ceremony Speech by Jacob Shawback
Good evening, my name is Jacob Shawback and I am a twelfth grade student from the state of Minnesota. Before I begin I would just like to give a few thanks. First and foremost I would like to thank the entire team at World Savvy, especially Laura and Daniel, for organizing such an amazing and life changing trip. I will truly cherish this experience for the rest of my life. I would also like to thank the educators James, Jay, Kate, Melanie, and Rose, for creating truly amazing learning adventures. Your support has helped make this opportunity truly amazing. Also I would like to thank the staff at SPEED, Justin, Samia, and Mehruba, for playing an instrumental role in organizing 60 students. I am sure that wasn’t stress free. Of course I would like to thank the Staff at Scholastic for opening up their facilities to us and making us feel welcome. Last but certainly not least I would like to thank Fahmeed Kahn Sheehan and his entire family for opening up your home and your hearts. Your generosity and kindness has truly made this experience one of the best of my life, and I am happy to call you family.
It is crazy to think that the exchange part of the program is coming to a close. In just three and a half I have seen and done things I will never forget. All the while with some pretty cool and amazing young leaders. Much of what I have learned here in Bangladesh I could have never learned in a classroom, or through the pages of a book. This is because much of the things I have learned are intangible, and could only be learned through experience. I have broadened my understanding of culture, grown as a leader, and possibly most profoundly I have witnessed and learned new perspectives on issues that we all share. Sometimes these new perspectives were eye-opening, sometimes they were challenging, and sometimes they were just humorous. For instance, the Bangladeshi perception of cold is very different that of a hearty Minnesotan such as myself. In fact I am pretty sure my host family thinks I am insane when I go out in a t-shirt, instead of bundling up in a jacket. Also I can remember many meals watching the U.S. students on my left practically melting, while the Bangladeshi’s on my right struggled to taste their food. One thing that definitely blew my mind however, was traffic in Dhaka.
Traffic in Bangladesh, although chaotic and intimidating, is a lot like life. The people battling the traffic daily here are going to the same destinations we go to in the United States: work, school, and home. Although the ways we get to our destinations and the obstacles we face along the way may be different. In the end we are all going to the same places. And sometimes taking a different road- or flying halfway across the world and then taking different roads as we did- can be an eye opening and enlightening experience.
Surprisingly, some of the most valuable lessons I have learned while on this trip have been while traveling through traffic. When I first arrived in Dhaka I was at a loss for words when it came to the traffic. The combination of driving on the left, constant merging, no pedestrian right of way, and the language barrier, resulted in a very eventful first car ride. In fact for the first few days I would just put my head into my bag and pray that we get to our destination safely. After a while however I forced my self to keep calm, by putting faith in the driver and believing that we would get to our destination safely. By forcing myself to keep calm I was able to see what was going on around me; I was able to look out the window and see sights I will never forget. Keeping calm was the first lesson I learned in traffic.
The second lesson I learned I traffic was patience, which is always a good skill to have and was definitely tested in two-hour long traffic jams. During traffic jams I knew I couldn’t do anything about the situation, so I had to come up with a way to pass the time and make it passed the obstacle. I used the traffic jams as a time to step back and reflect. I not only reflected upon what I had done, but I was I was going to do, and what I wanted to do. This reflection time not only passed the time quickly, but it allowed me to clear my head and focus my thoughts. Patience was the second lesson I learned in traffic.
The final major lesson I learned in traffic, and possibly the most important lesson, was understanding. For the first few days I was amazed at how traffic just seemed to work out, and how we were able to make it to our destinations. I was stunned at how rickshaws, CNGs, cars, and buses weaved through traffic in an effort to reach their destinations. I later learned in Bangladesh drivers of all sorts of vehicles understand that in order for themselves to go anywhere, they have to make sure others can move too. In fact it is this general understanding that allows all sorts of people who are going in different directions the ability to reach their destinations.
All of these skills and maybe even mindsets are hard to develop. But once you have them, your eyes are more open to the things going on around you, and the destinations are easier to get to. As youth leaders we are all navigating through the traffic of life, trying to reach our various interesting and amazing destinations. Even though transit may be difficult at times if we use the skills learned in traffic, the destinations may be easier to get to. First, keeping calm will help us along our paths. At first we are going to see and face a lot of challenges along our journeys, but by keeping calm we can better explore the world around us. Second, patience will ease the struggles we face along the way. The fact is making change is hard, but by being patient we can reflect upon how far we’ve come and how far we can go. Finally, understanding will bring us, and our fellow citizens, to our destinations. As youth leaders we have seen that people from all walks of life share the same essential problems, and through understanding and even solidarity we can all make it to our destination.
Although the roads we travel and the obstacles we have on these roads may be different, in the end we are all going to the same places. Sometimes taking different roads or exploring new perspectives can not only guide along on our journey, but also teach us a thing or two about ourselves.
Thank You